True Love at 3:00am

The fun pictures on this blog I hope let you catch of glimpse of what our family is like. Right now however, I would like to share the love in our home with you from a very different angle. That is love that is displayed when our children get sick. The other night Zachary woke Lance up to announce that he had thrown up in his bed. Lance let me sleep and went to help Zac. Moments latter Zac woke me up and said "Dad needs your help, I threw up." Ignoring any instincts of self-preservation I tucked Zac into our bed, knowing full well this act could get us sick and went to help Lance. As I changed Zac's sheets and blankets, I looked over to watch Lance shampoo the brand new carpet and I had to smile. Here it was 3am and we were working side-by-side happily cleaning a rather disgusting mess and I realized that this is what love is all about. We got Zac tucked back into his own bed and just as we turned towards our own bedroom Brycen's walked out of his room and informed us that he too had thrown up. I helped him into clean pajamas and then carried him into our bed. I snuggled with him for a moment and then went to change yet another bed while Lance tackled another carpet. By the time his room was clean Brycen was fast asleep in our bed. I thought about just letting him staying, but then knowing that our night was probably going to be very busy, and that we would need as much sleep as possible and also knowing that Brycen likes to sleep sideways in bed, I opted to carry him back to his bed, while Lance snuggled with Zac who was having a hard time going back to sleep.

Of course I realize that all parents have to clean-up after sick children from time to time, still a couple things were made even more clear to me that night. First, to know that Lance loves me so much that he was willing it let me sleep while he handled the clean-up process--despite the fact that he was the one who would have to wake-up to go to work in just a few short hours. I also thought it was very sweet that Zac realized his dad could use some help. Lastly, I felt blessed that at moments like this Lance and I feel nothing but love and concern for our children and for each other. This was just a small and relatively insignificant reminder that we truly would gladly do anything in the world for our family.

By the way everyone is feeling much better know. So far Scottie, Lance and I have even managed to stay healthy. And yes, the carpets still look new. I hope that all this talk about the flu has not made you feel queasy!